I am searching here me real love. What does it means: "real love" for me? Chrismas - I do not need a present - important is that me family (wife) is happy. Is she happy I will probaby I will get what I need: Sensual eye contact, a real smile and kisses of happyness feelings and with passion. This is what I need like the flower need the sun and which I missing like the flower missing the sun in the night. As you can see - I am a romantic man, love poety even if it is difficult to transfer in different languages. Private I like films like Sheakepeare in Love or The Holiday. In business I would never confirm and play my role that no man will catch the idea to challenging me or to underestimate my skills only because my private interests. At the end, I would have better choosen "Master of Softskills" as nickname.

Question: How can I make my girlfriend / (future) wife happy? I not believing in the concept only being a housewife. I think over the time for my woman it is to boring and she creating a feeling that the world developing further but she is not part of these new developings. Except in the situation of children. Happyness can be created if the woman is part of these developing - this is the case if she is going to work, maybe an interesting, qualified job and therefore is able to spend money without have to asking me. If she has a hobby which I do not share like diving, horses, motorcycling or like band name clothes - she can spend her money and is happy. If she is happy I will probable see her smile and get my kisses....


I am a Diploma Economist, certified accountant for German and Internationale Accounting Roles. I wrote 20 scientific and text books about accounting, economy and supply chain management and I also teaching these subjects at universities. This info is not to explain how smart I am but that you understand how I lost my time.

I am a good part-time cook.

I like if she present me her smile as gift. Therefore, it is necessary that she is happy all over the time as I explaind. In many profils I can not see what kind of job or qualification she has. For this reason, I create the idea to support her - becoming an accountant. Because I know the education - here the rough idea - after 0,5 - 1 year learning German, then starting learning bookkkeeping 4 weeks and then accounting. After 3 - 4 years first certification - learning you can earn around 200 € per day and after 7 years with knowledge of group accounting, international accounting, IT Systems like Datev, SAP and some real working experiences you can earn around 400 - 600 € per day. Clearly, you have to pay taxes of this income and the living costs in Germany are probably higher as in Ukraine. But is enough to be indepented. So, this education need roughly 7 year - bookkeeping only 4 weeks. The great advantage is not only the money - moreover, if something happend to me (for example car accident, heart attack...) she is able to continue the family independently. This is important for me, especially if we would have children.

But you should be aware that there exist no automatic process to finish this adventure. On the other side, even if you decide to go back to Ukraine because the war ended and missing or relatives or feel obligated to help with the rebuild of the Ukraine. I think if the war will end many German company will invest again in Ukraine and who do need these German companies? So this would be not a kind of waste time.

Germany needs also IT - specialists, caregivers, nurses and medical personal and provide a lot of jobs with salaries near the minimum wages like Fast Food restaurants. But even if you do not speak German can can not understand the order of the customers in a Fast Food Restaurant. In nearly all other economic sectors Germany has more native, qualified people as needed. Do not believe the official unemployment statistic. This unemployment rate is significant different in comparison to the people who searing a job.

The goal of the German government is to allow free trafic between Ukraine and Germany. But this not mean free access to German universities. Because even Germans have not such support, have to spend a lot of time for learning for subjects like maths, statistic, marketing, organisation, human resources.... the same education level needs in minimum 15 years.

The German government is willing to prevent warm flats and food for Ukraines. In theory also German languages courses - maximum period 6 weeks. It is clear that you can not learn German within 6 weeks. In reality, only a few can get such courses because not enough person with such qualification as teacher are available. Therefore, nearly 100 % of currently in Germany Ukraines are unsatisfied and unhappy because they can not discuss their problems, opinion with Germans. They are sitting isolated in their flats or worst in sport halls or containern as kind of refugees camps. This is documented with many TV shows here in Germany. Such a situation will bring only problems. So, my idea was created for my (future) woman.

If the war will end, the German government plan to "send" all Ukraines who are not necessary for the German job market back to Ukraine. This is not my plan and I have no influences to change this plan.

Now you may ask yourself: This is a dating platform - why this info? I am only a few days at this site. I get many messages - it is difficult for me to differeciate between fake profiles who is interested in me and who I maybe can help because of the situation in Ukraine and the alternative job market opportunities in Germany. I am happy to help - but first sending and reading is free. For each next reading I have to pay 10 €. So, the communication by this site is not really the best.

If someone is reading this message, is able and willing to create such a website for Ukraines searching a job in Germany I happy to help. One could expand to provide a sequence of 45 minutes tutorials to learn German - free for all Ukraines. I get many messages via this site - maybe this is also a solution and providing necessary info - also for already in Germany being Ukraines. Such a message can also underline my character - I am happy to help - if it is necessary and if it is possible for me.

But sorry - I have only one hearth to share.

I got also many messages of women with extrem good qualifications and who are already able to earn her daily money self - also in Germany. This is ok - I do not want to change you - I only want that you are happy, spend me your smile as gift and ....

Please do not start any panic mode only because you do not read a new message in a week. I have to work already to be able to pay my bills. And please create different communications ways...
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